Sunday, April 27, 2008

1 day down for Nate-o-potato

Poor baby looks like he's behind baby bars. I cried the second I saw this massive crib that has potential barriers on all sides (including the top) to keep the poor kid from escaping. The girls have already started decorating his crib with pictures (in case he turns his head in any direction) so he can be cheered up.

Nate has been such a good sport about it all. Today he got an NG tube put in his nose for the bowel prep that he had done today. He won't drink anything from a cup or bottle, so tonight they will start him on some clear fluids to get him some nutrients. We couldn't be happier with the set-up at MCG. They have a nice, big room for the family to spend time. They have a couch, fold out bed, TV, DVD, shower, bath, and best of all...a fabulous toy room across the hall that has a super nice air-hockey table. Dave and I will have to sneak out on an evening once Nate is asleep and play a game....we LOVE air hockey. I'm sure that whacking that puck will relieve some stress - can't wait!


Nate before the NG tube....checking out his pad. He smiled at every nurse he came in contact with. I wonder if he'll be smiling at them by the end of the week after they have poked and poked.
We went as a family to get Nate settled in. Then the girls and I went to church (not sure that was the best idea...I was emotional, but in control, for the first part of the meeting. Then there was the most beautiful quartet that sang "My Heavenly Father Loves Me". Didn't they know that that is the first song I sang to Nate minutes after he was born? Didn't they know that I sing that song to Nate every day? Didn't they know that singing that song would remind me of Nate and make me burst? Well, I guess they didn't. Every time someone asked me how I was doing, I started to cry.)
After church we brought dinner to Dave and had a nice visit with the boys. Nate is doing pretty well, and did better than we thought with me around him with not being able to nurse. I held him this way (in the picture) and it sort of helped him forget about nursing.

Quotes of the day:

Ash: So after a couple days, then Mom will stay with Nate?
Sadie: Yeah, then Dad can cry.

While saying good-bye to Nate this evening:
Ash (talking to me): Are you going to cry EVERY time we leave?

Thank you, thank you for your many prayers for our little guy!

13 comments:

Cathie said...

I am crying with you! He is adorable, but seeing the feeding tube and his little hands wrapped is so sad! We are thinking and praying for him. What a precious baby!

Jonathan and Rachel said...

Melissa -- PLEASE let me know what night I can come and keep the kids so you/Dave can be together!! Hope tomorrow goes as well as today!! You're a trooper! Love ya - Rachel

Jamie said...

We are thinking of you guys and saying lots of prayers!

Joel (Bob) and Dresden said...

We're here for you - if you need ANYTHING, just let us know. We're praying for you guys!
Dresden

Sheri said...

Poor little guy! I can't imagine being a nurse and having to do hurtful things to kids all day! Praying everything turns out good for Nate!

Bastianclan said...

Melissa,
Please if you need anyting please call. We are praying for you guys.
Tina

Lindsay said...

Nate is so adorable. Our prayers are with you guys.

Mary Ann said...

Nate is in our thoughts and prayers, as well as the rest of your family! Hang in there!

Anonymous said...

Let us know if we can help with the girls. We'll keep praying fro you too!

Kathleen Ainsworth said...

Let us know if we can help with the girls. We'll keep praying fro you too!-Kathleen

Patrick and Leigh said...

Melissa, we're praying for little nate and your family over here! Let me know what I can do. The girls are welcome over here any time!

Leigh

Anonymous said...

You are continually in our thoughts and prayers.

Anonymous said...

I hope everything went well! We are thinking of you guys and hope Nate-o-potato can go home soon!
Lots of love . . .